An essay on The Conversation uses Addie’s story to discuss how love and intimacy are not exclusive to the young.

Addie is characterized by her willingness to risk "the humiliation of being turned down" to escape the "pain of loneliness". Her philosophy is that it is better to attempt connection than to wallow in solitude. Critical Resources

For insight into the author's intent, the Chicago Tribune offers a review of how Haruf crafted this unconventional arrangement into a "deeply proportioned friendship".