: As seen in his broader career, Arthur often writes about the desire to "prove people wrong" or find a better version of himself; in this song, he presents himself as the better choice for the person he loves. Short Essay on Music | Adedayo Agarau - Isele Magazine
: Many listeners connect with the painful experience of being "the one who waits" or watching a loved one be mistreated. James Arthur - Can I Be Him
: James Arthur's willingness to admit to "pleading" for a spot in someone's life—rather than just being a "cool" protagonist—makes the song deeply human. : As seen in his broader career, Arthur