Identify the 20% of your current traits that bring 80% of your joy. Keep those. For the rest, imagine a version of yourself that is 10% bolder. What does that person do on a Tuesday morning?
Eventually, the new behaviors stop being things you do and start being who you are . You’ll know you’ve arrived when you no longer have to remind yourself to act differently—it becomes your default setting. Reinvent Yourself
People who knew the "old you" might be uncomfortable with the "new you." That’s okay. Their comfort is not your responsibility. Identify the 20% of your current traits that

