The term can be viewed as exclusionary, elitist, or condescending if used to imply that only certain people possess "valuable" intelligence.
While they may appreciate physical beauty, they are more strongly attracted to how someone thinks, speaks, and analyzes the world.
They are attracted to people who are knowledgeable and speak vigorously about their interests (e.g., science, literature, philosophy).
They are drawn to intense conversations, debates, and sharing knowledge.
The attraction is not limited to academic achievement, high IQ, or degrees. It often includes creativity, wit, humor, emotional intelligence, and passionate, in-depth discussions on specialized topics.