For Sutter, living in the "now" is a defense mechanism. He presents himself as the life of the party, a "self-proclaimed life of the party " who shuns responsibility. However, this lifestyle is fueled by constant underage drinking—a detail often highlighted in parental reviews to underscore the film’s grounded realism. His "philosophy" is less about Zen-like presence and more about a desperate attempt to ignore the hole left by his absent father. The Mirror of Aimee Finicky
: He treats it as a joke, claiming his biggest hardship was being dumped by a girlfriend. This reflects his superficial engagement with his own life.
: The central tension as Sutter chooses between the comfort of his vices and the vulnerability of a real future.
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